Author ~ Y'be Els

                  
                                      Critical Thinking!



    Sometimes we find ourselves letting others dictate what we should think and believe as well as do.  We will travel down the road of critical thinking, opening our minds to the universe to connect to a higher power that will enable us to use our most precious gift "common sense"!
     We are all endowed with common sense, some on a more profound level and some it is hidden away in our psych.  There are many people in the world in all walks of life that depend on their common sense, whereas others seem to think that having book smarts/sense is more prevalent and common sense is just something you use when all else fails, not realizing it, "common sense" normally is activated in times of need, when we really need answers to perplexing problems or issues and everyday life challenges, victories and accomplishments anyway.  This segment of Stay At Home Moms will take you on a journey in Critical Thinking on many topics one being how common sense works in application to our daily lives, the problems we might face, the people, place and things that can activate our natural abilities to solve problems.  
    In scripture it mentions we are given talents and how we use them is up for debate when there are some (in reality) that don't use their talents at all.  We women experience many faucets of life that requires us to manage not only our family and home but a job, our own well being, among some.  It sometimes seems like we juggle a lot in one day and look up and another day has come.  How do we decipher and keep our momentum and sanity in this ever-changing world today?  
    Thinking back over many years of struggles to get from one point, such as starting a family with a mate and raising children to another point, keeping a job, maybe furthering an education to social participation and on on...... we begin to realize that we used our common sense a whole lot of times.  
    Remember when the baby had a fever, well we took a cool cloth and wipe our precious child all over to suppress the heat coming from their little bodies.  Some of us learned and use another technique from our mothers and grandmothers by using rubbing alcohol to do the magic.  We even try sometimes putting the baby in a cool tub of water.  Whatever the case, we didn't exert all energy running to the doctor with the slightest hint of sickness in our children.  We use our common sense to attempt to help our babies feel better and even found ourselves diagnosing what could possibly be wrong with our babies.  We weren't always right but we weren't always wrong either.  If we felt and understood from a common-sense perspective, we needed emergency assistance with our child than we would call a doctor or went to the hospital.  
    What was important to us in the older days was we must feed our families with the proper foods to keep them healthy.  Common sense will tell you that your mate, and especially your children can not survive on junk food or sweets all the time and maintain good health.  
    Stay At Home Moms, believe that in order to be prosperous in life taking care of home comes first.  If you are a single woman, taking care of yourself comes first.  Don't misunderstand a woman that has a family "must" take care of herself first to be able to function properly for her family, but the mindset and well being of her family will activate in her a need to stay healthy and strong for her love ones.
    Coming from a large family, I found that we didn't have time to have self-pity for ourselves, we all had a job to do to make the family productive in every aspect of living.  We used our "common sense" a lot.  The education system was there to help us also academically use the knowledge that was given to incite in us the natural ability to use common sense.  We had to think rationally and use caution in our choices of daily living. This combination of the embodiment of self-preservation and education brought about a society that had the ability to maintain a nation. 
    The problem today in a critical thinking aspect is that most people are not thinking for themselves.  This society has become the denominator below the line (a shared reality) in our lives that brings about the question "are we really thinking for ourselves, are we believing everything we are told without questioning it"!  Do we do what everyone do without feeling no urge to investigate if it is the right thing to do.  Now of course, we must follow the laws of the land, but we don't have to always be on our cell phones, or the internet on some social media site, or out partying all the time. 
    There are other avenues in our lives that can give us gratification if we just stop and think, critically so, who are we following, who's beliefs are we carrying.  What ideas are we harvesting from others that we can ourselves create.  What can we do to make our lives and those in our circle more comfortable and productive?  How can we stay abreast in the system but be independent of this system in our thinking?  Could it be by utilizing the external forces of our society to enhance our choices with common sense the forefront of our choosing?  Do we get more educated or surround ourselves with educated people while excluding the need to arouse common sense?  These are topics that Stay At Home Moms will address because we feel this is a road to changing ourselves for the good or better with hope of being successful 100% of the time in "any" endeavor that we undertake. 
    More to come.......YBe anything other than 1's self!

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