Are you a Victim ofAbuse

 Please Note: "I am protected under the ADA as I have a record of having and I have debilitating conditions that effect my life . With this being said ,to have some one intentionally then try and make me the target of their own hate-campaign based off of lies that have been spread behind my back and then to have complete strangers mistreat me to help the liar bully me and try and make me feel as if these illicit , foul and examples of cruelty are to be acceptable is insane ". 

Not only are they insane but they are in fact against the law . As if being stalked in public was not enough this crazy person then decided to try and make this into some type of game and began to completely violate me in any way that they could, which included opening my mail and rerouting it to another address and or also going to the USPS and paying the employees to withhold my mail or to let them have mail that was actually meant to be delivered to me . They went to court and paid others to lie and make false statements against me to slander and defame my name . Forged my signature and signed a marriage license in my name to be able to defraud the courts into allowing them illegal access to funds and assets that were left in an inheritance for me . This is where all of the other aggressive non-warranted abusive actions then began to take place .  

I have been completely and undeniably made to suffer at the hands of a criminal who thought that they could paint a picture of me as if I had done to them all the illicit abusive and uncalled for acts that they had in fact done to me.

But it wasn't enough so they then added a coven of witch's who came on a regular bases to attack me spiritually mentally and emotionally never letting up hoping to cause me to commit suicide , because this insane person "wanted to win at all cost " in spite of the fact that I was just minding my own business and trying to live my life to the best of my ability - With this person choosing  to make a career out of bullying me and hacking into my cell phone laptop bank accounts my social media accounts etc never ceasing these attacks even paying others to pose as property managers to steal my non-public private information which they immediately made public by sharing it on the darkweb  for a price . These actions have been done numerous times after this Stalker found photo's of myself and my life long -love whom she was obviously trying to make her own lover at this point or even during all of these hidden attacks upon me  while also telling him that I was doing these things to her , which was a complete and utter lie . This bad actor then went even further to try and destroy me by watching me with the use of an illegally place surveillance camera in my bedroom and also in my bathroom . Thwy used this to sit back and make comments about my looks and my body etc while also targeting my body my head my back etc with a weapon that felt like a microwave forced weapon that burned my skin when ot made contact this caused all of my hair on the top of my head to fall out, This was being done so that this monster could somehow feel as if she was prettier  or had better looks I am not sure what would make another person attack someone who was not attacking her back but this is only a partial assessment of the abusive mistreatment that I have had to survive while living here in Seattle and while being the target of what I have come to realize is an attack by my now ex-lover and his one night stand who decided that she wanted what I had and that what I had accomplished  in life ,she could profit from so she then gathered others and had my ex placed under spells to confuse his thoughts and to make him feel the same rage and hatred towards me that she herself felt, even tricking me by sending fake messages of prize winnings so that she could then login to my social media accounts and change my login credentials to her own start contacing my family members and started to also tell lies about me to establish a relationship that she would use later to steal from me and to further cause me to suffer losses that she felt I deserved to suffer simply because she felt that I did not deserve what I had infact earned and had worked for .  This person even hired a hit-man to come and kill me she did this at least 6 different times , even setting the elderly low-income apartment complex on fire not too long ago and also breaking windows and having people surround my apt from accessing neighboring apts which she and several of her wicked hate full other coven members decided to attack and make fun of my spiritual walk through spells and candle magic , chants and even having me raped in my dream state after learning about a sexual assault that happened as a child . This was done in hopes of causing me to kill myself through suicide, they would do spells to cause me to suffer pain loss of creativity loss of love , loss of hope that my life would ever get better , or that I would ever find anyone else to love  telling me that I was not worthy and that I was ugly, fat dumb, stupid and that no one would ever want to be with me etc .... this is coercive abuse - when someone tries to control the life of another trying to make them feel as if they are not meant to have a life free from the control and that their life is not worthy of being treated any way except abusive and destructive bullying a person to cause them to feel pain suffering and the negative  affects of being belittled and  disrespected .  Or  as this explains >     Coercive control is an act or a pattern of acts of assault, threats, humiliation and intimidation or other abuse that is used to harm, punish, or frighten their victim. 

What is psychological coercion?

It describes a variety of controlling acts including manipulation, intimidation, sexual coercion, gaslighting (a form of psychological abuse in which a victim is manipulated into doubting their own memory and sanity).

 

What are acts of coercive control?

Coercive control is a pattern of behaviors that enables someone to exert power over another person through fear and control. Coercive control can happen in any type of intimate relationship and includes behaviors such as insulting the other person, making threats, exerting financial control, and using sexual coercion  

 here are some of the effects -

• Self-doubt

• Irritability Confusion and difficulty making decisions Feeling fearful and constantly walking on egg-shells Low self-confidence Loss of enthusiasm Frequent headaches and/or migraines Digestive issues Stress-related physical issues such as heart conditions Anxiety Depression Intrusive thoughts and memory problems Sleep or eating disorders Substance abuse Self-harm Suicidal thoughts and/or attempts

It is clear that verbal abuse cannot be minimized to the simple ‘sticks and stones’ saying, but in fact often results in the development of a range of health issues, both mental and physical. Moreover, we must always remember that verbal abuse is often accompanied by other forms of abuse which can have a huge emotional and physical toll on victims.

 AND THIS IS WHY WE MUST DO MORE TO STAND UP AND FIGHT BACK AGAINST THOSE WHO KNOWINGLY ABUSE THOSE WHO THEY SHOULD ACTUALLY BE PROTECTING- I AM AND I WILL BE VICTORIOUS IN MY ATTEMPT TO GET BACK WHAT WAS STOLEN AND FOR THE NUMEROUS AMOUNT OF DAMAGES THAT WERE INTENTIONALLY DONE TO CAUSE ME TO SUFFER - PLEASE STAND WITH ME IN MY PERSONAL FIGHT TO EXPOSE THESE THREATS THAT ARE UB FACT HAPPENING WHERE I PRESENTLY RESIDE AND EVEN THOUGH I HAVE REPORTED THEM TO LAW ENFORCEMENT THESE VIOLENT AND PAINFULL ATTACKS STILL CONTINUE TODAY AS A BULLY WILL RARELY ADMIT TO THE CRIMES THAT THEY KNOW THEY ARE IN FACT GUILTY OF COMITTING  AGAINST THE TARGETED VICTIM.

  CREDIT TO>https://belfastwomensaid.org.uk/verbal-abuse-in-relationships-coercive-control-tactics/