There is nothing worse than a man who can look you in the face and lie to you and actually attempt to make it look like he has not been having sex with anyone when you already know the truth and in fact you told him exactly what he was going to do before he did it , but yet for 3 years he lied and hid what was going on behind my back and expected me to want to become a FWB when I was the wife that he never even divorced before he decided to tap a new keg and start sippin from another's tainted spout ? And fyi I would rather be with a Man who can be proud of his sexual desire to be selective and want for only one Woman no matter how sexy others might think he is , what really makes him sexier is the fact that many may want him but only one Woman can have him and he knows that just like himself she too only gets down with him , her man - verses a man who when you walk into the club or bar every woman that is known to be "easy" or a "popoff" makes their way to his table to let him know that they're free tonight if he can get away from his old lady - and then they look and notice me , his old lady who now knows why I stopped trusting anything that a man ever says as having any credibility - You see the man I was with is the type to let an argument turn into a life long regret when he allows his desire to inflict pain against someone who he had 20 + straight years of pretty hot sex and an amazing creative business connection ,who would imagine it could turn into him committing a wreckless betrayal that he should never have done simply because his desire to F@ck someone else out of Malice so that the betrayal would be felt for the rest of my life or at least this was her plan so she could gloat about how great it had been to get off while getting one over on the woman who had saved this man's life when his heart had stopped beating just a few shorts years prior to when he linked up and hoped that this betrayal of someone who was simply too damn sincere that their was absolutely no reason to have done what they did if not for his tiny ego and her lie-a--betes being unable to tell the truth about her motive to why she was so eager to deny her involvement in causing any of the problems that she blamed on me and when it came to being honest about the intentional planned backstabbing that they did because of his and her lil bruised ego's , a betrayal like this that would make them then come up with what's turning out to be one of the biggest false claim to illegally allow others to cause harm to an innocent ex-life partner in history - simply because they let lust be mistaken as love and let both their ego's get out of control and cheated and committed a sin , and instead of admitting it they made up huge lies about me , his ex saying that he needed to have her targeted for death becuz "she" was a threat . when in fact knowing that he had betrayed their devine union is what he feared most because he did not want to have to pay her anything for the affair that he had a part in and also the resulting other hostile crimes they both took a great deal of enjoyment in committing against his now ex and also illegally committed in her name all due to their own inability to tell the truth to the intentional lust filled night spent together and can't forget the surprise 55th b-day party where she brought 2 Friends to completely defile our devine union the same woman whom has lied about why and who she was really wanting to cause harm to and together they both bonded over their own new found hatred for Me which has lead to an open criminal investigation to why a man who claimed to be so up- right was so easily taken out and proven to be hiding many dark secrets that he should never have acted on and actually expected to be able to keep such a secret with an open new relationship and her friends and the dirty little secrets that made them both resort to committing crimes just to continue with the covering up of the affair that had already been witnessed by God - who did not consent at all and had shown me everything - yet when I asked about what had taken place I was lied to for over 3 years !!!!!