In my case I feel that there is an Ex of my EX's who has become obsessed with me and my life not so much because of anything that is positive but mainly due to wanting to 1 -up me or to cause me to suffer due to her/him felling as if they can replace me perhaps due to my age ? my race? my disabilities ? my religious beliefs? or the way in which I make me income - which is one of the most interesting points being that my ex and I have never mingled our income's and he never paid any of my bills or any of my extra fee's say for instance my nails ? if I wanted my nails done I paid for them myself , same with anything that I wanted from food to clothing it was my money and so this is why I am unhinged that there is someone who is so completely hell-bent on causing me to suffer a loss of wages or a loss of my Federal benefits with this obsessive stalker even resorting to trying to get me locked up for no reason simply because I have been successful at what ever it is that I do to earn a living - So then this stalker decided to make up false statements about me to my Ex trying to portray me as something that I clearly am not - saying that I out in the streets when I do not even go out - saying that I am doing illicit sexual things just to tarnish my good image - which leads to to realize that this stalker has become so insanely jealous of me that they can not see straight and can not see that all of their over-obsessing about me and whatever I am doing to trying to block my success and also trying to impersonate me and also collect revenue that this person or person's had not in fact earned but rather they had stolen and attempted to make others feel as if it was their own work - while also telling my ex- and others that I had no talent - or that I was the one stalking her when in fact I was too busy doing the work that this person was in fact stealing from me - It became so severe that this person filed fake police reports to keep me and my Ex separated- I believe that this was done so that this obsessive controlling person could manage to manipulate the situation and could gain and control my ex's trust - with him feeling as if this person was a hard worker when in fact they had intentionally stalked our relationship to come between us so that this person could then feel as if they had somehow managed to steal some of my light as this also seems to be a large part of their obsession with me , the fact that other's like me seems to really make this person lose their mind and the fact that I am still doing what I do and this person is still trying to manipulate the situation while also hiding behind the scenes like the true coward that they are -
And let me make this clear - I do not care that he moved on ! What I am concerned with is the fact that the 2 of you , even though you have been boasting online and imitating me and making negative remarks about everything from my look's to the way in which I raise my adult children ( btw this person even tried to report me to CPS but my children are all over the age of 18 ) But they were trying to act as if they had it all going on together but in reality this person was really trying to get close enough to my ex to seduce him so that they could feel a sense of stabbing me in my heart - while this is a concern with someone being so maniacal that they would join our congregation and also stalk my social media profiles I am most concerned with the fact that this person has a grudge against me that borders on a domestic terrorist type of Mental- assessment with racially- or ethnically-motivated violent extremists committing the most violent incidents during the time period.I completely feel as if this is a case of racially or ethnically-motivated violence being conducted by those who are intent on preventing and breaking up my relationship with my Ex-lover with the focal point being the demise of the formation of a "strong Black - power- couple " as we had been coined - yet I am also often criticized as "not being Black enough" yet there is a definite under-tone of pure hatred that seeps from the pores of these attacks aimed at me and at my adult children and my immediate loved one's whom they have also attempted to get them all to mount up against me so that I would have no one to turn to for support of companionship - This is a sick individual who would take so much time to involve themselves in the attempt to completely destroy me because of a jealous feeling of thinking that I could easily be removed and replaced only to find out that not only am I alot tougher than I might appear on the surface level but I can also keep track of facts and represent my case in the court of law - Which for you is not going to go well because in your delusions of grandeur and 'one-up-manship " you left a long trail of finger prints accounts that connect you to me as my actual stalker and the person who is insanely obsessed with every aspect of my life and the fact that you'd file a restraining order against me - when I do not even know you yet you also routinely come to where I reside and hover over my bedroom and bathroom while you also hack into my files and attempt to share my files and my communications with who ever will listen - leads me and the other Federal Investigators to see that it is not me who is actually the threat to the community but that it is in fact "YOU " Who are the safety threat to not just this community but to the religious organizations and also to Senior housing , since you also have committed arson at least 1 time at the property where I reside - with all of this facing you , it's a wonder why you are still at it ! but also is proof to the magnitude that you are obviously willing to go just so that you can make yourself feel better - when in reality it takes a low-level woman/man to come after another Woman simply because her light was shining too bright in your eye's ! Get a life preferably your own and live it - because I will never be taken down by someone who is as cowardly as you or as obsessive about another's business when I have so many other things for you to clearly also be jealous about - wait for it - because it's coming - I have included some facts to read about domestic terrorism and coercive control - Please read and educate yourselves so that we can eradicate these bad actors away from our societies-
- https://www.gao.go What GAO Found According to U.S. law, domestic terrorism is generally defined as involving criminal acts dangerous to human life occurring in the U.S. that appear intended to coerce a civilian population or influence or affect the conduct of government. The Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) tracks cases (which it defines as investigations and disruptions) consistent with its investigative mission. The Department of Homeland Security (DHS) Office of Intelligence and Analysis (I&A) tracks incidents which it defines attacks or plots, consistent with its definition of domestic terrorism. From fiscal years 2013 through 2021, the FBI’s number of open domestic terrorism-related cases grew by 357 percent from 1,981 to 9,049, From calendar year 2010 to 2021, I&A tracked a total of 231 domestic terrorism incidents, with racially- or ethnically-motivated violent extremists committing the most violent incidents during the time period.v/assets/gao-23-104720.pdf
shared from >https://dvnconnect.org/coercive-control-dvn/
Coercive control can show up in many ways and in a variety of relationships. The way it transpires is through different tactics a perpetrator will use. Some of these include:
- Isolating partner from support system
- Excessively monitoring partner’s activity throughout the day
- Denying partner’s freedom and autonomy
- Lying and gaslighting
- Name-calling and putting down partner
- Limiting partner’s access to money (even their own finances)
- Reinforcing traditional gender roles
- Turning partner’s own kids against them
- Controlling aspects of partner’s health and body
- Making jealous accusations
- Regulating the sexual relationship decisions
- Threatening partner’s pets and/or children (Healthline)
