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Showing posts with label stay at home moms changing lives. Show all posts
Showing posts with label stay at home moms changing lives. Show all posts
GOTTA HAVE FAITH
THERE ARE SOME WHO ARE DOWN FOR THEIR WOMEN - THEY WILL FIGHT FOR THEM , PROTECT THEM FROM HARM AND APPRECIATE THEM FOR THE LOVE AND COMPASSION THAT THEY GIVE ON A DAILY BASIS .
THEN THERE ARE SOME WHO HAVE LOST THEIR SENSE OF WHO THEY ARE . THEY WILL TURN THEIR BACKS ON A GREAT WOMAN AND ALLOW OTHERS TO STALK HER BLOCK HER AND TARGET HER FOR PROFIT , HECK SOME WILL EVEN PAY THESE MEN TO LIE ABOUT HIS STRONG "BLACK" WOMAN WHILE UNDER OATH IN COURT , SIMPLY BECAUSE HE WANTS TO STEAL THE WEALTH THAT HE HAD DISCOVERED WAS LEFT FOR HIS WOMAN , A WOMAN WITH WHOM HE HAD BEEN IN A LONG TERM LOVING RELATIONSHIP FOR OVER 20 YEARS . THEN TELLING LIES TO THE COURT ABOUT HIS WOMAN BEING UNFIT TO MANAGE MONEY , AND NOT ABLE TO CARE FOR HERSELF , YET IF THIS WERE IN FACT TRUE , THEN WHY WAS IT THAT HE HAD LEFT HER AND HAD RENTED AN APARTMENT FOR HIMSELF WHILE SHE HAD NO OTHER CHOICE BUT TO MOVE IN NOT FAR FROM HIS NEW HIGH-RISE MODERN WELL EQUIPPED HIP COMPLEX , HE LAUGHED ABOUT THE FACT THAT HIS PRIOR LIFE PARTNER WAS ONLY ABLE TO MOVE INTO A LOW-INCOME PLACE AND HAD ACTUALLY MADE THE COMMENT THAT HE DIDN'T EVEN LIKE COMING ONTO A PROPERTY OF SUCH A POOR QUALITY AND CLEANLINESS .
THUS THIS SHOULD HAVE BEEN A RED FLAG TO THE FACT THAT THIS MAN WHO WAS SO EASILY ABLE TO FORGET ABOUT THE LOYALTY AND GENEROSITY OF THE WOMAN HE HAD SPENT THE PAST 20+ YEARS WITH , AND BEHIND HER BACK ATTEMPT TO PULL OFF ONE OF THE MOST DEVIOUS ACTS OF BETRAYAL THAT I HAVE EVER MYSELF BEEN A PART OF.
I HAD BEEN LEFT MONEY IN A COURT CASE AND WAS INTENTIONALLY DEPRIVED OF WHILE HE TOOK ON A ROLE OF ABUNDANCE AND CONTROL AS THE POWER OF ATTORNEY , WHICH IS A ROLE THAT I HAD NO NEED FOR HIM TO HOLD AS I WAS AND HAVE FOR WUITE SOME TIME MANAGED MY OWN FINANCES AND IN FACT PAID FOR MY OWN LIVING AND MY OWN BILLS ETC .
IN FACT TO THIS DAY I HAVE YET TO RECIEVE EVEN 1 PENNY OF AN INHERITANCE THAT WAS ACTUALLY MINE , WHILE HE WENT ON TRIPS AND PAID FOR OTHER FEMALES TO LIVE LARGE AS IF HE HAD EARNED IT AND AS IF SHE HAD BEEN ME AND THEY WERE NOW ABLE TO LIVE IN ABUNDANCE .
AN ABUNDANCE THAT THEY HAD BOTH SWINDLED FROM ME AND HAVE ABSOLUTELY REFUSED TO RETURN TO ME , THE RIGHTFUL HEIR .
IN FACT I BEGAN TO GET MORE ATTACKS FROM THE ORGANIZED STALKERS AS THEY NOW HAD MONEY TO INCREASE THE ATTACKS AND DAMAGES THAT I WAS BEING BOMBARDED WITH .
IT WAS ONLY THROUGH MY FAITH IN THE MOST HIGH THAT I WAS ABLE TO SURVIVE WHAT WAS CLEARLY MEANT TO KILL ME - MY LIFE HAS BEEN FOREVER CHANGED AND MY SOUL WILL NEVER TRUST THE WAY THAT IT HAD IN THE PAST . THEY HAD ACTUALLY PLACED A HIT ON MY LIFE , ATTEMPTING TO HAVE ME TAKEN OUT SO IT WOULD MAKE THE SINS AND THE LIES DISAPPEAR . HOWEVER THE AFFECTS OF ALL OF THE MANIPULATION TACTICS AND ACTS OF WAR - WHICH IS EXACTLY HOW IT FELT TO ME ,AND I NOW SUFFER FROM EXTREME PTSD AS WELL AS MANY OTHER SIDE EFFECTS THAT A SOLDIER NIGHT EXPERIENCE FROM BEING STUCK IN A BATTLE FOR THEIR LIVES WHOLE HAVING TO POST UP IN A TINY DITCH WITH THE ENEMY RIGHT OVER MY HEAD FIRING AT MY HEAD MY BODY AND ATTEMPTING TO KILL MY SOUL AND TAKE MY LIFE
I WAS NOT ABOUT TO JUST LET THESE MONSTERS JUST TAKE ME OUT , IN FACT IT BECOME SO INTENSELY OBVIOUS TO ME THAT IF I DID NOT MAKE IT , THIS TYPE OF ILLEGAL INTRUSIVE AND ABUSIVE MISCONDUCT AGAINST ME WOULD CONTINUE TO HAPPEN TO OTHERS AND I MADE A VOW THAT I WOULD FIGHT THIS AND WIN , SO THAT I COULD TELL THE LAW MAKERS ABOUT ALL OF IT AND MAKE CHANGES TO THE LAWS THAT SHOULD HAVE BEEN IN PLACE TO NOT JUST PROTECT ME BUT ALSO TO HAVE PREVENTED IT IN THE FIRST PLACE -
I AM NOT SURE IF I WILL EVER TRULY HEAL AND SOMETIMES I JUST FEEL A GREAT AMOUNT OT ANGER GRIEF AND LOSS FOR THE TRUST THAT WAS LOST WHEN A MAN THAT I FELT LOVED ME AND WOULD PROTECT ME DID NOTHING BUT USED HIS POSITION AND CONNECTIONS TO VIOLATE ME AND LEAVE ME IN A STATE OF DISBELIEF
THE SADDEST THING IS I ACTUALLY FORGIVE HIM , AS I REALSIZE THAT A MAN WHO FELT HE HAD NO OTHER OPTION BUT TO DO WHAT HE DID , MUST HAVE BEEN FACING SOMETHING THAT I KNEW NOTHING ABOUT BUT IN TIME I DO HOPE THAT HE WILL FEEL COMFORTABLE ENOUGH TO LET ME KNOW EXACTLY WHY HE DID WHAT HE DID -
AND IN A WAY I ALSO FEEL THAT IT WAS A TEST - A TEST OF MY FREE WILL, A TEST OF MY ABILITY TO OVERCOME ALMOST EVERYTHING AND MOSTLY IT WAS A TEST OF MY FAITH , MY FAITH IN THE MOST HIGH - WHO GAVE ME THE ABILITIES TO NOT GIVE UP AND TO NEVER GIVE IN TO THE ATTACKS OF OTHERS BECAUSE HE HAD NOT BROUGHT ME THIS FAR JUST TO BE TAKEN OUT BY THOSE WHO NEEDED PRAYERS FROM ME MORE THAN THEY REALLY NEEDED PUNISHMENT -
M ANDRES "STAY AT HOME MOM'S CHANGING LIVES "
A REMINDER TO ALL OF YOU WHO MIGHT BE UNDER ATTACK , REMEMBER THAT YOU CAN AND YOU WILL SURVIVE AND ALSO TRY HARD TO FORGIVE THOSE WHO TRESPASS AGAINST YOU -
What's your Impact ?
Romans 12 -If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men. Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.
Been thinking and I must say that a Man or Woman see's in the world what He or She carries within His or Her heart
With that being said I must apologize for carrying anger in my heart in an attempt to hopefully not have so much anger aimed and targeted at me . If I have offended anyone with my words or with my sometimes stubborn stance on issues I humbly say I apologize as I am really not an angry person so to speak but I do know that at times and especially during all of this Pandemic dealing with several associated health difficulties that have impacted my life in detrimental ways that I was not ready for , However I am determined to be a better steward of my affect on others lives so I figured that I should start with a sincere apology and an invite to extend your hand and actually get to know me , as I am usually known to be quite intriguing generous care-free and compassionate , I enjoy showing those who I live among my love through cooking and sharing of meals really hoping to get out of my comfort zone and to be able to share more of myself with my community .
I have always been a firm believer of being a part of the solution rather than a part of the problem and so I had to take a step back and look at how I was presenting myself while being under attack and I needed a fresh -coat because the other had chips and stains....
To those who are struggling to be happier in life , you can never let a bad chapter in your life become your entire novel for within every person is an un-polished Jewel waiting to be polished and seen for their magnificence rather than for the shattered edges that have come from those who did not know that Jewels are to be seen as assets and not as accessories for you to try and make fit into your evil schemes. For when you truly learn to value your own worth you won't have a need to rely on anyone else to tell your own life story it will be told in the things that you do and the ways in which you make others feel . I choose to be the best person that I can be even though my life may not be all that it ought to be I will continue striving to improve and in improving myself I am able to improve my positive affect on the lives of others .
Author ~ Y'be Els
Critical Thinking!
Sometimes we find
ourselves letting others dictate what we should think and believe as well as
do. We will travel down the road of critical thinking, opening our minds
to the universe to connect to a higher power that will enable us to use our
most precious gift "common sense"!
We are all
endowed with common sense, some on a more profound level and some it is hidden
away in our psych. There are many people in the world in all walks of
life that depend on their common sense, whereas others seem to think that
having book smarts/sense is more prevalent and common sense is just something
you use when all else fails, not realizing it, "common sense"
normally is activated in times of need, when we really need answers to
perplexing problems or issues and everyday life challenges, victories and
accomplishments anyway. This segment of Stay At Home Moms will take you
on a journey in Critical Thinking on many topics one being how common sense
works in application to our daily lives, the problems we might face, the
people, place and things that can activate our natural abilities to solve
problems.
In scripture it
mentions we are given talents and how we use them is up for debate when there
are some (in reality) that don't use their talents at all. We women
experience many faucets of life that requires us to manage not only our family
and home but a job, our own well being, among some. It sometimes seems
like we juggle a lot in one day and look up and another day has come. How
do we decipher and keep our momentum and sanity in this ever-changing world today?
Thinking back
over many years of struggles to get from one point, such as starting a family
with a mate and raising children to another point, keeping a job, maybe
furthering an education to social participation and on on...... we begin to
realize that we used our common sense a whole lot of
times.
Remember when the
baby had a fever, well we took a cool cloth and wipe our precious child all
over to suppress the heat coming from their little bodies. Some of us
learned and use another technique from our mothers and grandmothers by using
rubbing alcohol to do the magic. We even try sometimes putting the baby in a
cool tub of water. Whatever the case, we didn't exert all energy running
to the doctor with the slightest hint of sickness in our children. We use
our common sense to attempt to help our babies feel better and even found
ourselves diagnosing what could possibly be wrong with our babies. We
weren't always right but we weren't always wrong either. If we felt and
understood from a common-sense perspective, we needed emergency assistance with
our child than we would call a doctor or went to the hospital.
What was
important to us in the older days was we must feed our families with the proper
foods to keep them healthy. Common sense will tell you that your mate,
and especially your children can not survive on junk food or sweets all the
time and maintain good health.
Stay At Home
Moms, believe that in order to be prosperous in life taking care of home comes
first. If you are a single woman, taking care of yourself comes
first. Don't misunderstand a woman that has a family "must"
take care of herself first to be able to function properly for her family, but
the mindset and well being of her family will activate in her a need to stay
healthy and strong for her love ones.
Coming from a
large family, I found that we didn't have time to have self-pity for ourselves,
we all had a job to do to make the family productive in every aspect of
living. We used our "common sense" a lot. The education
system was there to help us also academically use the knowledge that was given
to incite in us the natural ability to use common sense. We had to think
rationally and use caution in our choices of daily living. This combination of
the embodiment of self-preservation and education brought about a society that
had the ability to maintain a nation.
The problem today
in a critical thinking aspect is that most people are not thinking for
themselves. This society has become the denominator below the line (a
shared reality) in our lives that brings about the question "are we really
thinking for ourselves, are we believing everything we are told without
questioning it"! Do we do what everyone do without feeling no urge
to investigate if it is the right thing to do. Now of course, we must
follow the laws of the land, but we don't have to always be on our cell phones,
or the internet on some social media site, or out partying all the time.
There are other avenues
in our lives that can give us gratification if we just stop and think,
critically so, who are we following, who's beliefs are we carrying. What
ideas are we harvesting from others that we can ourselves create. What
can we do to make our lives and those in our circle more comfortable and productive?
How can we stay abreast in the system but be independent of this system in our
thinking? Could it be by utilizing the external forces of our society to
enhance our choices with common sense the forefront of our choosing? Do
we get more educated or surround ourselves with educated people while excluding
the need to arouse common sense? These are topics that Stay At Home Moms
will address because we feel this is a road to changing ourselves for the good
or better with hope of being successful 100% of the time in "any"
endeavor that we undertake.
More to come.......YBe anything
other than 1's self!
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